The Ultimate Event Planning Checklist: From Engagement to “I Do”

Engagement Checklist

Planning a wedding is one of life’s most exciting journeys—but it can also feel overwhelming without a clear roadmap. Between selecting a venue, choosing vendors, and making design decisions, it’s easy to lose track of details. That’s where a well-structured event planning checklist comes in.

At Always Special Events, we’ve helped countless couples bring their dream weddings to life. To make your planning process stress-free, we’ve put together the ultimate step-by-step guide, from the moment you say “yes” to the day you say “I do.”

12+ Months Before the Wedding

Dream, Research, and Budget

  • Celebrate your engagement!

  • Discuss your overall vision, style, and must-haves as a couple.

  • Set a preliminary budget and decide who will contribute.

  • Draft your guest list to estimate size.

  • Research venues and book your ceremony & reception location (this sets the date!).

  • Hire a wedding planner (like Always Special Events) to help with vendor recommendations and keep planning stress-free.

9–12 Months Before

Secure Your Core Vendors

  • Book your photographer and videographer.

  • Hire your caterer if not included with the venue.

  • Reserve entertainment (DJ or live band).

  • Select an officiant.

  • Shop for your wedding dress and bridal party attire.

6–9 Months Before

Details Begin to Take Shape

  • Send Save-the-Dates (especially for destination weddings).

  • Plan accommodations for out-of-town guests.

  • Meet with your florist to discuss seasonal blooms.

  • Finalize your wedding theme, color palette, and décor inspiration.

  • Begin planning your honeymoon.

4–6 Months Before

Make it Personal

  • Schedule tastings with caterers and bakers (cake time!).

  • Book hair and makeup artists.

  • Choose ceremony readings, music, and special traditions.

  • Select rental items (linens, chairs, lighting, etc.).

  • Order wedding invitations.

2–4 Months Before

The Countdown Begins

  • Mail invitations.

  • Apply for your marriage license (check your county’s rules).

  • Buy wedding rings.

  • Schedule dress fittings and alterations.

  • Confirm transportation for wedding day.

1–2 Months Before

Final Touches

  • Create a detailed event timeline (Always Special Events can handle this for you).

  • Confirm all vendor contracts and final payments.

  • Plan your rehearsal dinner.

  • Prepare a shot list for your photographer.

  • Write vows, if personal.

1–2 Weeks Before

Small Details Matter

  • Pack for your honeymoon.

  • Finalize seating chart and print place cards.

  • Have your final dress fitting.

  • Confirm arrival times with all vendors.

  • Break in your wedding shoes.

Wedding Day!

Relax and Enjoy the Moment

  • Have a nourishing breakfast.

  • Follow the timeline you created.

  • Delegate small tasks to trusted friends or your wedding planner.

  • Most importantly—soak in every memory.

Pro Tips from Always Special Events

  • Stay organized: Use a binder or digital planning tool to keep contracts and notes in one place.

  • Prioritize: Focus first on big-ticket items like venue and photographer.

  • Stay flexible: Some details will shift—what matters most is the joy of the day.

Final Thoughts

With the right timeline and guidance, wedding planning doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. This checklist keeps you on track so you can focus on creating meaningful memories with your loved ones.

At Always Special Events, we specialize in turning plans into picture-perfect celebrations. From the first consultation to your grand exit, we’ll ensure no detail is overlooked.

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